Will you go for the available choice or wait for your choice to be available.

Will you go for the available choice or wait for your choice to be available.

When you are under parental guidance you don’t always have a choice, you must comply, but when you get parental freedom ,you are faced with making choices at every step of your life.

One of these choice is, choosing your life partner.

As a typical young matured lady or gentleman, well learned, high IQ, cultivated, responsible, elegant, just name it.

You get to meet people every time and from every walk of life, right from school days, the neighborhood in which you live in, in your church, at your workplace and all the friends you make in places like the mall, the cyber café, or while picking a bus .

We all grow up with the profile of our perfect man in head, and as time changes some get modified or some added or others subtracted, but if only wishes were horses?

But here is the major point, we do not choose who to fall in love with, our heart does; and the irony of life is that, the person you choose might not choose you, and the person you didn’t choose might choose you.

Oh yes! and I bet it has happened too many of us. This makes it a waste of time if you have to hang on, and hope on someone who doesn’t even care if you exist.

A grown woman for example, who has the age to get married but thinks she hasn’t found her Mr. Right and is so desperate to settle down, accompanied with pressure from her parents, does she have to go for the next available man?

I guess you can predict the end.

So while you are searching and hunting and googling for the “right man or woman” ,what you ought to know is that

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and there is a man out there that matches you perfectly, maybe he doesn’t look the way you expect him to look, (he or she should look like John Dumelo,  Majid Michel, or Genevieve Nnaji, better still Joselyn Dumas.) and he may be right in front of your face whilst you are looking faraway.

Therefore use your second sense to know more about those around you, would help, taking time to know someone helps in strengthening or weakening a relationship, and that could be #a tip that will get you closer to the right person.
Well unless you want to wait forever and be disappointed.

There is a saying that goes like this

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Therefore it is what you are looking for in that person ,that should inform your decision.

Who doesn’t want a happy, loving, caring, trustworthy and responsible partner?

Because after all, “when all is said and done and he or she is gone, we only remember what that person did and not what he had”.

Therefore inspect, examine, dissect, analyze and scrutinize well.

To Avoid, “If I had known”.

What do you think?

Do you agree with me? 🙂 🙂




Comments (3)

  1. Hardy

    May 26, 2015 at 8:28 pm

    There is a third choice. When a child wants something, he/she asks his/her parent. To me its really very simple. God made everything including us, he knows who we are going to be with eventually, so instead of wasting precious time debating on you going for the available choice or wait for your choice to be available, just ask the maker of all things to SEND YOU ONE WHO IS WORTHY AND DESERVING OF YOU AS YOU ARE OF HIM/HER.

  2. Miz_Akwele

    July 10, 2015 at 7:16 pm

    Definitely going for the available choice.

  3. Daniel

    February 10, 2016 at 6:08 pm

    I agree with you bro. But the fact is how many people can hear from God, even when he speaks, how many believe and understand? When he is yet to speak, how many can be patient. It really take a devoted life and time to God thank this method can be fruitful.. Nonetheless, it is the sure method of getting best partners. Many people have just chosen on their own and fortunately they are living happily. If you can’t wait for God to speak, it is better you just watch for the fear of God and Christ in those you are crushing at. God bless you

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